Ishi loves to dance, she loves most of Marian's dance hits. Her favorite is "SO SEXY", now she likes "sabay sabay tayo" because they were practicing it for their graduation presentation this coming March 28. She started to like Marian Rivera when she played the role "Marimar" in chanel 7 - GMA. She was imitating the dance steps of Marian as Marimar. Now that Marian has a new Telenovela- "Ang Babaeng Hinugot Saking Tadyang", we watched the very first episode of it with my daughter Ishi.
Too late when I found out it's not apropriate for kids, I did't react yet, I don't want my daughter to feel any malice about it. We just stopped watching and I said we're going to bed already. She didn't cry or something but before we go to bed, she asked me to dance Marian's dance...I dance "Marimar Dance" then she shouted "Hindi ganyan mommy...ganito" and danced na parang nasa club (Do you know what I mean if you have watched the first episode of it). Though it looks so cute to see my little Ishi dancing that way, I feel so guilty because I let her watched this telenovela. Did you know what's worst than dancing dirty dance? One day I was angry with her because of some silly things she have done, she was sorry and said "mommy kiss na tayu" (she's always like that when I am mad at her)....I kissed her naman kasi nag sorry na...I was shocked because she didn't gave me a smack kiss but a "semi adult kiss"!!! Do you get what I mean? As in yung parang ginagaya nya talga yung kissing scene nila Ding Dong and Marian!!!! Gosh naloka ako!!!! I want to get mad but since she was just a kid and ofcourse dhe didn't know what she did, I said nalang "yuck....laway!!! hindi ganun ang tamang pag kiss!", and she asked "pang mommy at pang daddy lang ba yun? at pang lola? at pang lolo?". I don't know what to answer pero sabi ko " yes pang adult lang yun, pag nakita ka ni daddy ng ganun pagagalitan ka niya!". After a week she did it pa rin...magalit na talaga ko...tapos ayun awa ng Diyos d na niya ginagawa ulit. Iniiwasan ko nlnga talaga makapanood siya ng ganung mga eksena kasi big girl na....nanggagaya na talaga. Kakatakot! Hay!
How bout you mommies? Me anak na ba kayung ganito? hay kakaloka! 3 years old palang eh kung anu anu na ang nakikita....hindi namana ko mahilig manood ng TV ngayun kaso sa gabi kasi naka TV na ang mga lola! Sigh!
Too late when I found out it's not apropriate for kids, I did't react yet, I don't want my daughter to feel any malice about it. We just stopped watching and I said we're going to bed already. She didn't cry or something but before we go to bed, she asked me to dance Marian's dance...I dance "Marimar Dance" then she shouted "Hindi ganyan mommy...ganito" and danced na parang nasa club (Do you know what I mean if you have watched the first episode of it). Though it looks so cute to see my little Ishi dancing that way, I feel so guilty because I let her watched this telenovela. Did you know what's worst than dancing dirty dance? One day I was angry with her because of some silly things she have done, she was sorry and said "mommy kiss na tayu" (she's always like that when I am mad at her)....I kissed her naman kasi nag sorry na...I was shocked because she didn't gave me a smack kiss but a "semi adult kiss"!!! Do you get what I mean? As in yung parang ginagaya nya talga yung kissing scene nila Ding Dong and Marian!!!! Gosh naloka ako!!!! I want to get mad but since she was just a kid and ofcourse dhe didn't know what she did, I said nalang "yuck....laway!!! hindi ganun ang tamang pag kiss!", and she asked "pang mommy at pang daddy lang ba yun? at pang lola? at pang lolo?". I don't know what to answer pero sabi ko " yes pang adult lang yun, pag nakita ka ni daddy ng ganun pagagalitan ka niya!". After a week she did it pa rin...magalit na talaga ko...tapos ayun awa ng Diyos d na niya ginagawa ulit. Iniiwasan ko nlnga talaga makapanood siya ng ganung mga eksena kasi big girl na....nanggagaya na talaga. Kakatakot! Hay!How bout you mommies? Me anak na ba kayung ganito? hay kakaloka! 3 years old palang eh kung anu anu na ang nakikita....hindi namana ko mahilig manood ng TV ngayun kaso sa gabi kasi naka TV na ang mga lola! Sigh!
2 comments:
yes, media really has a big big influence on our kids. so at a young age, i try to control what goes on the TV... especially sa mga teledramas, pag inappropriate, i switch the channel and most of the time, my kids watch kids movies (veggietales, barbie, disney etc) BUT of course, we cant guard them 24x7 di ba? and sometimes, we just get caught sa teledrama too... so i guess its best to talk to your kids when they are watching something... i strike a conversation about what we just watched and explain to them its good or bad etc... hindi ko masyado problema yung sa gabi, kasi pag 6 or 7 na, we all go to the room na. we read books, do projects, play toys and tell stories... so iwas TV sa gabi..
nay scary nga ito, well my daughter is different so hindi nanggagaya thank goodness. nakakatakot talaga kasi ung mga palabas sa tv ngayon kahit tanghali may mga kaseksihan na inappropriate. hay ang mga lola di naman mapigilan to watch these kasi libangan. buti nalang di na nya inulit. hirap talaga sabihin bad un kasi hindi naman bad kaya lang inaapropriate. pag may ginagawang mali or di tama ung anak ko i tell her inappropriate mas naiintindihan nya kaysa sa bad dahil parang pag sinabi kong bad mas ginagawa nya hahahaha.
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